No Fat, No Ugly, No Fem. No Rice, No Curry, And No Blacks

I’ve been meaning to write about this for years, but I can’t think of a better time than during the black lives matter protests following George Floyd’s murder (there is nothing alleged about it). A short while ago Grindr decided to remove the ethnicity filter. This started valid debates with a bunch of friends and…

Romance in Bali

Bali is a popular destination for honeymooners and people who are in love. For years I said to myself that I would save it for that trip with the right guy. I said that this wasn’t the place for a solo travel trip. But then I woke up one day and realized that while my…

The Gay Bucket List

I’m itching to blog about something. It’s been almost a year since I posted anything. I visited at least 12 new countries since and have a laundry list of stories I want to share. So why am I writing about bucket lists? Because this crap takes much less time and thinking to write! It also…

The Ten Commandments (gay edition)

1. Thou shall not hate on, flame, or exclude any gay sub-culture, race, or ethnicity 2. Though shall not ghost thy fellow gay (it’s rude) 3. Thou shall use condoms (or prep) 4. Thou shall practice sexual hygiene (at all times) 5. Thou shall not post more than one shirtless selfie (per month) 6. Thou…

Independence Day in Lichtenstein

What are the odds for someone to randomly end up in the 6th smallest country in the world on its Independence Day? 1 in 365. Not bad. Not bad at all. I was visiting some good friends in Zurich and had a half day off while they were working. They had another friend staying over…

Gay life in Boston

With so many young people and a high level of education, being gay in the capital of the state that was the first to implement gay marriage is no big deal. Boston attracts a lot of students, so I thought this post may be helpful to those new in the city. Gay Events LGBT film festival:…